3 1/2 Years and Counting

Wow! I stopped blogging three and half years ago. Now, I'm back but not searching anymore. Just getting back into blogging and hopefully inspire others to not stop looking because we all deserve to meet our soulmate.



Yes! After Michael from AZ, I met JC* right outside my neighborhood 7-11. He was wearing a blue hoodie, jeans and sneakers. He had no fancy LA clothes, rides the bus, has an old school knapsack for a bag and is hairy. Me, on a Prada shirt, Evisu jeans, Commes des Garcons shoe outfit; driving an Audi A3; a GStar messenger bag; and spends more than a quarter of my salary on face and body products. And we have been living together for three and a half years.



Now, is he my soulmate? I don't know. I guess a soulmate doesn't necessarily have to be one you meet and fall in love with. He could probably even be a she. So I'm not stopping my soulmate search, instead I'm not looking for one anymore.



I will, however, keep this blog alive. Most likely about relationships, mine or others aka gossip, and such. So I hope to get feedback from you, yes, you.



Cheerio ~

The OC

Well, yeah...so what? Am up to it again. Trying to be closer than before, but OC is not LA. Maybe someone is out there for me....

Wish me luck!

PS> I don't remember why I didn't post this. Oh well, better late than never.

Utah to Phoenix

I posted my worldwide soulmate search last year in Utah and Michael responded to my ad. Funny coz he lives in Phoenix, AZ.

So we dated a few months, I believe from October, and it sadly ended last month. I was busy with work, and my new found interest in real estate. He was busy expanding his business. I guess there was not enough love between us to compromise our hectic lifestyle.

However, I am thankful for meeting him. I learned a lot about long distance relationships, as well as the important virtues of honesty and sacrifice. I wish him all the best coz he deserves it. Hopefully we cross paths again someday, and we will laugh at our mistakes, and smile at our long distance love affair that once was.

More power to you babe. Cheers!

Another Deadend

All hellos and no how are yous?

Hello,

I like your posting and I love Asian men..I thing we have a lot in common as far as our likes and dislikes.

I am 39, if that's not too old send me an email address and I will send you a pic.

I live in Indy..

Take care!

Or its all about sex.

Would love to meet sometime for some hot fun and see if we can be soul mates. I have several pics I can send you and would be able to answer any questions you might have.

Hey there hows it going. Hope you are having a good day. Just wanted to say hi and let you know that I like just about anything when it comes to in bed. I am pretty vanilla to kink. I have a foot fetish I like to be very oral. I like 69 and eating ass. Especailly a nice smooth ass. I am pretty much a laid back guy that likes arts and Music and the outdoors. How bout you? What do you like to do in and out of bed. Let me know what makes you tick. I have attached several pics. Hope you will like them. Let me know! Plus do you have anymore pics of your cute self?

Mark

Or wishful thinking that maybe someone is really out there for me...

ha thats funny
send me a face pic
im in indiana. . .dont know why i got a kick out of your ad
im 32
5'10
designer/realtor

shannon

here r some other pics of me..
so is ur name bill, noah or shannon?

btw..as my " funny" ad says..i liv in LA....

vince

shannon
bill is my father/ broker
and his email says noah. . dont know why
anyways. .
nice apartment/condo. . .
so any luck finding your mate?

not yet..am not givin up tho...if i find a friend, lover, boyfriend thru my search..its all worth it then..
thanks..its a house i rent a room at here in LA..

hav u been to LA?

v

no i havent
i have a really dear friend there. . .
i think i'd like it
s

wat u waitin for..summer is the best...all the beaches r nice n filled with half naked bodies...wooh..i can show u around too..

how is the real estate biz in indy? boomin probly huh....did u see the $75M property in san diego online....crazy..

vince

hey
i know. . .summer is best I'm sure
although fall is my favorite season
are you interested in the 75 mil property. . it would be worth me getting my license in calif = 2.6 mil commission not bad
yes I do have myspace
later
shannon

mornin shannon,

if i had 75 mil..ill build a charity instead of gettin a property i wudnt really need...i think there is too much wealth on so few...

ooh.. http://www.myspace.com/xxxxxxxx

The End.

Signs of a Soul Mate

14 signs of a soul mate

14. If you argue and fight with them, you still cant get them out of your mind...
13. When you're on the phone with them late at night and they hang up but you miss them already when it was just five minutes ago...
12. You read their texts over and over again...
11. You walk really slow when you're with them... 10. You feel shy whenever you're with them... 9. When you think about them, your heart beats faster and faster...
8. You smile when you hear their voice...
7. When you look at them, you can't see the other people around you... all you see is him/her...
6. You start listening to slow songs, while thinking of them...
5. They become all you think about...
4. You get high just from their scent and their kiss...
3. You realize that you're always smiling to yourself when you think about them...
2. You would do anything for them...
1. While reading this, there was one person on your mind the whole time.....

Off to the Race Track

Indianapolis, Indiana

Racing against time, I head to the home of the Indy's..nope not about movies but car racing. Will I find my Indiana Jone's here?

On your mark, get set, GO!

http://www.indy.org

2 from DC, 0 for My Heart

Too busy at work, I haven't paid much attention to this blog. From D.C., after one posting on a weekday, I got two responses, none of which attracted my attention:


i am 32 yr old middle eastern american guy. i am 5 9", 170#, 31 waist, muscle jock ...let me know if interested and we can xchange pics.


am a 38/wm/178lbs/5'11"/smooth/red-blue/7.5" cut/hwp/ddf/hiv-
I work in Springfield, VA .
I enjoy oral, 69, touching and exploring another mans body, kissing, tongue explorations and total naked body contact - more if the chemistry is right.

SM in DC

I have not lost faith in my search, so this time I am trying Washington, DC.
http://www.hionthehilldc.com/top_ten.php

My search continues for I believe you are out there. So I may be from So Cal and you may be from Xena, but if we are soul mates, or one who believes that distance will not stop us from being together, we will find each other.

I am Asian 5’7 150 lbs. Cute, boyish, smooth, safe, Aquarian bottom. Enjoys relaxing fun filled sunny days by the beach; tight cuddling while watching tear jerking DVDs on a rainy night with warm nonfat cocoa with extra marshmallows; scrabble with eclectic friends downing Pinot Noir bought on sale; sweating it out at the gym, on the dance floor, up the mountains or in between the sheets.

You are less than 40 years of age with lots of love, fun and sex filled years to offer that is man enough to send me a brief description and hopefully, a recent picture of himself.

Reach out. Life beckons.

P is for Portland

Picture: The Grotto
A peaceful oasis in the midst of the city, The Grotto is set among 62 acres of botanical gardens. As an internationally renowned Catholic sanctuary, The Grotto offers a place of peace and quiet reflection for all people. More than 100 beautifully sculpted statues and shrines are nestled among flower-lined pathways winding under towering firs. Peaceful reflection ponds, spectacular cliffside vistas and award winning architecture offer inspiration for all who visit this natural gallery in the woods.

After my brief search in Pittsburgh, I am trying Portland. I posted on Christmas day, so maybe thats the reason why I got these responses within hours after my posting.

Hey bud. Believe it or not visiting the family here in oregon and I'm from so cal too. Always lookin for friends and see where it goes. I'm 26 6'4 and 190 pounds. I'd love to chat and have a sidekick phone with aim on it and email. Would love to chat..Ian

I'm 37, 5'8, 150, brown/blue and live in Portland Oregon. I'm safe, std free, loyal, dependable, versatile, looking for friendship/relationship. I have two part time jobs and am also going to college. This pic was taken in Thailand last year..Steve

Hello, That'a a pretty daring posting you have up here on the Portland CL! I admire you for giving it a try. I too am on a search, and you are definitely my type, at least what I am looking for physically, culturally and sexually. Maybe I would be yours as well, if our age difference is not too great a problem--and that cuts both ways, of course. So, I am a 50's caucasian guy, 6'1", 175# lean built muscular top, 8"c who just can't get enough smooth asian skin. I have been single for two years now, and I feel good about finding a partner/counterpart to settle in with for the long run..... So please take a look, and think about it..Joe

Nce ad how old r u?..Patrick

A few days after I am happy to say that I am still in touch with two guys from these group. Guess who.....

Desperate Soulmate

It has been weeks since I last posted in New York, and I still get emails from this guy Steve.
I was sorting my files and deleted his other postings but here are the last few from him. Ok, ok...i had to respond today coz am a real nice guy. Never pass on an opportunity!

Hi Steven,
Here are my pics. Hope you had a wonderful christmas weekend.
Cheers,
Vince

vince
send me your pix since i sent mine maybe i will be in l.a. begining of the new year
love and peace
steven


hi..
i am back in LA. wud hav been nice to hav met there.
vince

steven wrote:
do you want to meet?

Pirates of Pittsburgh

Usually I would post and repost within the week, but due to the hectic holiday schedule, I wasn't able to give Pittsburgh much of a chance. Here are the responses to my ad. And I am not sure if they deserve another posting anyways.

I am at the Station Square Sheraton. If you are intested you can call 412-261-2000. I am WM 42 clean virgin.

Hello. My name is Steve. I am from Harrisburg, PA. I am visiting Pgh this week though. I saw your ad and thought I would respond. I am 5'11", 185 lbs, smooth, muscular .... football player build ... cleancut, masculine, professional guy. My pic is attached. If you like what you see, send me a pic and we can make plans to meet.

Hi..You free during daytime at all? Let me know I live in Bergenfield and only free during day.
Thanks how long are you in town for and planning to go out at all while here? Gay Club in your area - Feathers! J


Hi, The attached are my pictures.
Please send your to me. let see we can work it out or not?
Which area are you located? Jason

Now didn't I tell this guys that I am from Southern California, and not from Pittsburgh. Jeez, even pirates know how to read, or else how would they find the treasures! Well, I do have a soft spot for this city, so maybe my ship will drop its anchors again someday.